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So Watcha Watcha Watcha Want?

I want to say a little something that’s long overdue. The disrespect to women has got to be through. To all the mothers and the sisters and the wives and friends, I wanna offer my love and respect till the end.

Adam Yauch, aka MCA The Beastie Boys
The Beastie Boys

This morning I was texting with a dude on bumble. I’ll just call him “Dr. Dude.” He was flashing his cool ass Jordan’s. Blue and whites. I was a bit jelly cuz I want a pair of those fly Jordan’s.

Dr. Dude suddenly started to quote The Beastie Boys song Fight for Your Right.

You gotta fight for your right to party!

It made me chuckle, no lie.

I love The Beastie Boys. After my text convo with Dr. Dude, I headed out for my morning walk and started to play The Beastie Boys on YouTube while I stopped at the basketball courts to shoot some hoops with an abandoned basketball that was left on the court.

The song “So Watcha Want “ came on. Again it made me laugh since it’s always the proverbial question on dating apps “What are you looking for?”

Most times, men are just looking for sex or a short term hookup. They don’t want anything long term. Especially the ones getting out of long term marriages. They just got outta jail, so why would they want to go back with another woman long term?

I always see these men as a huge red flags. Especially the ones who haven’t had therapy. They are incredibly draining. Often times I see them as blind. They don’t know where they’re going. Or what they want.

We all know by now that men process sex differently than women. Women secrete oxytocin and get attached. It takes men a bit more to get attached.

But I’ve encountered so many men that have had their balls all tied up to other women. These women can be their ex wives or baby mamas. The stories are all the same “she told the children A B & C about me. She’s saying I’m going out with many women. Blah blah blah. “

The men get so angry at these women and their words. It’s true … words are magic and conjure much feeling. I’ve seen beautiful tall successful men turned into teeny tiny little maggots through the word spells these women have cast on them. They give them so much power over their lives.

It always amazes me how 2 grown ass adults can turn into teenagers at the snap of a finger.

The funny thing is that these men don’t even realize they’ve been put under a spell. A sort of trance. They just turn into maggots when they start talking about the words the woman who holds the string to their balls has cast.

A few months ago, I was dating one of these type of men. One evening at dinner, I took a bathroom break. When I came back, he was reading a 2 page email from his baby mama.

This baby mama literally had hijacked my date. I don’t know her, nor do I want to meet her at this point. But I swear she could feel that her man was out with another woman… even though they had not been together for several years.

The baby mama guy had even said “ She writes that I’m all over the place dating other women. It’s just not true!”

This is that part in my personal screenplay where I break the 4 th wall and start to speak to the audience. I tell them the last time I checked I was a woman. And we were on a date.

Several months had passed. The baby mama guy kept texting me over and over again. We went to dinner, and once again he chose to bring up the 2 page email from his baby mama. It had been 4 months since our last date. And once again this woman was psychically hijacking my date.

She always knew when and how to pull his strings even though he was blatantly unaware.

I’m convinced this man’s balls were being manipulated by his baby mama. And it was literally killing this guy. Every time I saw him he looked worse and worse. Smaller and smaller. I even wondered if he was actually shrinking like Alice in Wonderland?

So what’s going on?

Is it voodoo? Black Magic? Witch Craft?


It’s probably an energy cord that the 2 said people still have between them.

What are energy cords?

On a subconscious level, there are energetic cords that are still binding you to the previous lover. That’s why their “word spells” have so much pull and power. Very much like a marionette being manipulated by its master. The person being manipulated doesn’t realize that their strings are being pulled . They are unconscious. In a state of a hypnotic trance.

How does it work?

It’s pretty simple. You spend many years sleeping, eating and having sex with this person. Their words become embedded in your subconscious. They could be psychically abusive. But your mom was that way, your subconscious mind sees this as normal. So you don’t question it.

There’s an imprint that’s there. Every time the partner says something, you react like Pavlov’s dog and start to salivate. You start to get angry. You cry. You react in whatever fashion your puppet master wants.

Many of these types of men run away. They don’t even know why they are running. They no longer know who they are or what they want. It’s as if their memory has been wiped clean from them. Now they are lost. Free. Doing what they want. They start to party. Perhaps drink too much. Maybe dabble with some drugs.

But instead of just having fun, they start to get deep into the sewers of their subconscious now plagued by guilt and shame. They are now acting like a robot kinda like Mr Lincoln at Disneyland circa 1980’s.

He starts to say catch phrases like “ Hello Beautiful,” that really has no real emotion behind it. It’s just a script the subconscious blurts out. It’s a learned behavior.

He’skinda like a reverse Pinocchio. This man has now transformed into an animatron. A puppet.

Soon these men start to have all kinds of health problems: depression, heart disease, heart attacks, stroke, and some even commit suicide.

When a relationship like a marriage comes to an end both parties are liable for their part that they played in their personal comedia del arte. One person did not create all the drama. Sometimes there are many complicated parts that lie sleeping deep in the subconscious minds of f both parties involved.

They may be recreating programs implanted by parents, religion, society and television shows.

One day, you wake up and say “How did I get here?”

I’ll just have to add to Adam’s aka MCA’s quote: there’s been also much disrespect done to men. Through false expectations, media religion and society. We are all in the middle of a rude awakening. Not all of us are ready to wake up!

For more info on psychic energy cords please listen to The Nurses and Hypochondriacs Podcast Psychic Surgeon

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